Opening explanation of my connection to ND for the ND Senators:
Long version for Inkwell group (version sent to Senators only included the Story about Mr. Goffe):
"Calle Vision sand in your teethgranules of cartilage in your wristsCalle Vision firestorm behindshuttered eyelids fire in your footCalle Vision rocking the gatesof your locked bones"..."Lodged in the difficult hotelall help withhelda place not to live but to die innot an inn but a hospital"
"Turning points. We all like to hear about those. Pointson a graph.Sudden conversions. Historical swings. Some kind ofdramatic structure.But a life doesn't unfold that way it movesin loops by switchbacks loosely strungaround the swelling of one hillside toward anotherone island toward another"
"Old backswitching road bent toward the ocean's lightTalking of angles of motion movements a black or a red tulipopeningTimes of walking across a street thinkingnot I have joined a movement but I am stepping in this deep current (loved it when this line came up when I was actually stepping out into the street from the curb)Part of my life washing behind me terror I couldn't swim withpart of my life waiting for me a part I had no words forI need to live each day through have them and know them allthough I can see from here where I'll be standing at the end"
When does a life bend toward freedom? grasp its direction?
How do you know you're not circling in pale dreams, nostalgia
stagnation
but entering that deep current malachite colorado (I love the way she said "colorado")
requiring all your strength, wherever found
your patience and your labor (also love the way she says "labor". Maybe I just love the accent there).
desire pitted against desire's inversion
all your mind's fortitude?
Maybe through a teacher: someone with facts with numbers
with poetry
who wrote on the board: IN EVERY GENERATION ACTION FREES
OUR DREAMS
(and I believe in these teachers who can inspire as they have made a difference to me)
Maybe a student: one mind unfolding like a redblack peony
quenched into percentile, dropout, stubbed-out bud (also love her enunciation in the reading of "stubbed-out bud" but so sad to think of the quenching - you can hear her sadness in the line and also anger)
--- Your journals Patricia: Douglas your poems but the repetitive blows
on spines whose hope you were, on yours
to see that quenching and decide.
I also love the poem "Sending Love":
- sudden loss (mom enters coma, Charlotte, etc) - Joan's experience of
husband's death suddenly at home
- also long uncertain scary losses where you are at mercy of docotors
(mom seemingly indefinitely in a coma and no one seems to be able to
remember how long it was)- Joan's daughter getting pneumonia, in coma,
other medical issues ( but apparently now ok at end of book) however
all the medical research Joan did reading her book on Intensive Care
is much appreciated. I wonder if we could have helped differently had
we known more... (there goes my own magical thinking of wanting to
make it better, to control a situation I could not control).
So many things I can not control and I still have trouble just
worrying about the stuff I can control and doing that Like going to bed.
"Life changes fast.
Life changes in the instant.
You sit down to dinner and life as you know it ends.
The question of self-pity"
- Joan Didion from the book.
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I don't have a clarinet yet, although I played for 8 years (5th thru
12th grade) in VC. So it was sight reading and "air clarinet" last
night. (this is a link to a music store they recommended, I'm also checking out a used horn on Friday).
It was the SF Lesbian/Gay Freedom Band, which meets at Lowell High
School in SF. My new friend Claudia told me about this on Saturday -
she plays flute and piccolo and really enjoys the band and loves the
director.(and like me, she is "straight but not narrow" and married).
I was surprised at how homey it all felt from the years I spent
sitting in the clarinet section all through school.
The band room, while a bit more deluxe than VCHS', still felt the
same: similar layout with storage for instruments and rooms to
practice lining the walls, podium for the conductor, etc.
Clarinets sitting in the same place - to the conductor's left. Almost
as numerous as the VCHS horde of clarinets- at least 10 I counted just
at this one rehearsal.
I first sat in the section leader's chair while I waited for him to
show up, and then moved to the row behind, and eventually sat in a
chair behind the back row and looked over people's shoulders as more
clarinets showed up.
The music seemed doable and the fingering came back to me as I sight
read, except for some of the sharps and flats. (the high b flat? The
really low e flat? ???)
Some of the songs were easier than others, but the band themselves
were still working the hard ones out so I did not feel weird.
Jadine, the director, seems really awesome. I love Mr. Bowen, but this
is obviously a level above, even just on the basic level that we are
all adults who are voluntarily here to play music (and hopefully get
better).
Very impressed by her direction in dynamics (piano vs forte, etc) and
in trying to get the group to listen to each other as a live band.
In high school somehow I never thought of us as playing off each other
and changing our style to fit the live performance like a jazz band.
I just thought we all had our parts, and if we all play in the right
time, it would sound ok.
There's a whole other level here - for example: she tells two sections
playing a syncopation in response: "just listen to each other - don't
try to count it."
She also had 7 instruments play a part of a song where they all come
in a beat after the last, and asked the group to listen and try to
count the voices.
Afterward she said that it was not as important what she asked us to
listen for, the important thing was that we generally listen better
when listening for something.
I briefly felt like I was in a Glee episode when I first got to the
school and 3 cheerleader/yell team types were hanging out outside. One
was wearing red which reminded me of the Cheerios!
I had some trouble getting in before I called Claudia, because the
front doors were locked. It turns out there is a side door that they
use- she came out and got me (and nicely dropped me off at San Bruno
Bart afterwards).